just found this from Ryan's away message

Today, marriage has not lost its function ; it suffers from a surfeit of functions. The marriage partner must not only be a lover, but a friend, a colleague, a therapist, and a tennis partner. Indeed, the standards of romantic marriage-unquestioned fidelity and undiminished passion-are merely an ideal to be approximated, not a universal precept to be obeyed.

-excerpt from No More MoonJune: Love's Out

its so great! i completely support same sex marriage. I was so glad that NYC legalized gay marriage! YAY good for them! PEace LOVE and HAPPINESS!!